I just got kicked out of a party because of what my avatar was wearing. I got a PM from the host telling me that we are not on a beach and I needed to change. I was puzzled and the next thing I knew, I was blocked from the party.. There was no dress code in the party description either. It was just a grab and go. I did not know that bathing suits and surfboards are considered vulgar! If that’s the case, then they should not be offered on CW.
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Players say this is a “Fantasy” Game and is “Meaningless”?
BUT, there is a “REAL” Person behind EV Avatar Here on OUR CW! 
I feel for you because I have been there! 
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I have “Multiple Blockers” because " BEERS DON"T COUNT"? at thier Party! … OMG, LOL, Where I’m from that’s ALL that Counts, 
I have “Multiple Blockers” because I said “You are a MEAN Person” to a PLR in Public who WAS A MEAN Person! We talked, made up, and became Friends again, but the “Blockers” on me are here to this day! 
I have PLRs Blocking me because they Disagree with MY “Concept of Reallity”? 
I never even Block them back, LOL!
I, personally, do not believe in “Blocking” Players here! But I remember, We are ALL FREE here! If PLRs here don’t like me, so be it? “F” them! You Deserve FREEDOM to be you! If others don’t like it, “F” them, Move on and be GLAD you don’t have to deal with them?
Be FREE, Be Happy and Have FUN!!! 
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Thanks for your response, Steve. I have been on CW for 5 years and I can count on 1 hand the number of people I’ve blocked on here. Some people are block-happy, however .I think it makes for a hostile atmosphere. I’ve also noticed that some people spread garbage about others too.
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I have a friend that , that happened to as well.. Sadly, some have a holier than thou mentality ..So sorry this happened to you…
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Maybe its just me..but…i come here to play the games, relax and get away from the drama of life. I sure dont want to come here to deal with it too!
That being said, i have never blocked anyone, even at the GnG parties i host. To me, its just drama.
If people want to play the fool and act like CW is their personal HOA environment, then that’s who they are. I go to parties, host them, and just play the games without letting the drama come into my world.
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I’m sorry that happened to you. My parties are always inclusive. Good grief, this is just a game. I have been blocked by some people, I don’t know why. Maybe my profile offends them. I blocked one person who I also had to report. I have a thick skin so I can engage with cranky people. Most people here are very friendly and helpful.
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I agree with you, Pat. In CW’s rules, they even say that nothing they provide is counted as inappropriate. As for the blocking, when you and I first started CW, we used to be blocked if we just stood at the back of the room. I don’t know of anybody who still does that. I know I never blocked anybody for such a petty act. I have blocked nearly a dozen in my entire time on here. Three or four of those were because of blatant vulgarity. I will never unblock those. Stay well and safe.
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I tried to friend someone recently at a party and got a message they had blocked me. Didn’t say why, but I didn’t waste any time dwelling on it. I can’t be bothered. To each their own. As long as I’m having fun and not hurting anyone, then life goes on 
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It always amazes me how petty some people can be in this game. It’s the same (actually worse, I think) in Vegas World and 7 Seas. I have been blocked by so many people that I don’t even know, blocked by the host right before the last box because, evidently, I didn’t toss enough charms. My thoughts are, if you want people to toss a certain amount, specify it in your party comments. I used to block people who had me blocked, but now that I’ve been playing for a few years, I really don’t care, so when I come across those I had blocked, I unblock them. They can do what they want. I can only control me. Like many others have said, this is just a game, but the people behind the avatars are real, so be kind. It’s really not that hard. Enjoy, have fun, and good luck to all!
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Parties were never meant to be a contest on who tosses the most charms, or having a requirement that you toss a certain amount. That takes away from the original design of the charm parties.
If your ‘that’ kind of host, then your parties are the ones i stay away from.
When I host my parties, its an open social environment. I dont care what your outfit is, or what your beliefs are. All I care about is having fun, gettting some new charms and making it a social environment. My parties are always GnG so that there is no pressure to toss charms. A lot of people on here are still new and /or dont have the funds to by a ton of charms to toss.
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maybe you were making them drool @Pat_n_Huck so they had to get rid of the eye candy
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That is nuts, I have been booted from a couple of parties in the past and have no idea why. I did not really care there are plenty of parties out there. I have a couple that have blocked me and again I have no idea why, but you know what I don’t care about that either. I have made tons of friends here so for every 20 friends if 1 don’t like me for some reason that is their problem as far as I am concerned.
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I been here over 5 years sometimes blocking is needed to keep drama out of the parties if you host, but to block someone for an avatar outfit is petty. But there have also been children caught playing on this site under their parents’ accounts once a 7-year-old was friending people, so be careful everyone, behaviors that are childish maybe just a child themselves
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That’s crazy…then why offer bathing suits for an option for your Avatar???
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I like what you wrote.Relating
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Ive been blocked by ppl who host “toss” 3 choppers parties after i tossed my charms lol, i got dcd, so i didnt get a fraction of the charms i should have got. Clearly i didnt just bail w/o getting my charms lol. Some ppl are just bitter i guess.
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lets face it some people just like to power trip 
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I like what you said @NashRivers , and totally agree. However, when I was new here and only attending parties not hosting them, I didn’t like the pushy people who kept urging guests to bust the parties. It ruined the whole fun atmosphere at those parties for me, and often I would just leave because it made me so mad. Sometimes these people weren’t even tossing themselves. I couldn’t afford to buy extra gems then, and just wanted to go to parties to have fun and meet new friends. I even wrote in my profile that if someone said anything about busting in a party, I would block them and I did.
Not quite four years later, I’ve found this seems to be primarily a newbie thing and I don’t run into it at the parties I go to now, which are given by people who’ve been here awhile and are at higher MS/Crown levels. I never kept a list of the people I blocked back then, but when I come across someone I’ve blocked and have no idea why, I always unblock them. These days I don’t block except for the few people who insist on extremely rude talk or extremely bad behavior. When I host, I would never criticize anyone for not tossing or only tossing small charms or let another guest scold them for that. I know that some people can’t afford to do more, but they usually participate as best they can. I’ll let karma take care of the moochers.
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There is nothing better than a “No Pressure” party. I like Uni parties for myself but try to get to lower charm parties hosted by newbies, to help them out. I also like to throw lower charm parties so more ppl will have a chance to attend. I would only ever block someone if they were extremely rude. Parties should be a fun place to get charms and be social. Sometimes ppl can’t give and that’s ok with me. Maybe you have it maybe you dont. Might depend on your day what your gem count or party pass count is. I like to believe that if you can’t give at one party, for any reason, you will pay it forward when you can. It happens to the best of everyone at some point. My suggestion… Party for pleasure!!
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