The plunking is not the problem really.
The problem is that your AVIs position in a room looks different on different displays.
Yesterday my CW BF was commenting to another Player to “get off Regina’s butt’“!
On my display, the dude was nowhere near me.
My trick is that when I enter a Party, I move to the spot in the room that I like. Then my AVIs placement is correct for everyone.
The Nice Regina